That sounds like a great deal of ugliness. I could not see that before hand. Nonetheless, my former response still stands as the best advice. Fire off a letter. It can be polite. It should simply state that given your daughter's pregnancy and the emtional turmoil that the latest visit caused, you think it is best if the parties refrain from any contact at your residence. You cannot prevent them from calling your daughter. Only she can do that. Nonetheless, once you put them on notice to stay away, if they do not, you may seek a restraining order.

Your daughter should start thinking about what she intends to do about paternity when the child is born. if he is the father, he will inevitably commence a paternity action and seek parental rights. Perhaps some discussion would be wise presently. Of course, have you pressent or a lawyer present makes the most sense.

I am sorry to hear about your difficulties.

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I think it is a good idea. You should also be documenting in a notebook any concerns that you may have about the father's parenting abilities and, apparently, anger management issues. Certainly you should journal events like the one that most recently occurred.

If the father has any criminal background, you may wish to acquire those records in advance as well. A lawyer in your state would be better able to direct you in that regard.

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