Bert:
I'm afraid that the answer must be no, unless by "Stealing your wife away" you mean by kidnapping.
In any other sense, despite the fault of the other man, your wife did have to go along willingly. And if there were such an offense that you could sue on, it would have lapsed years ago due to the statute of limitations.
Deep hurts can hurt for a very long time though, can't they. Some people don't understand how that can be the case, but grief is very individual.
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Thank you and good luck,
Dan