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can I ride a three wheeler in my own yard when neighbors

Sent to Legal Experts September 04 01:23 AM

My parents live out in a country. Sometimes I bring my children over so they can ride a three wheeler. Their neighbors was very upset because according to her it was raising dust up in the air and she had problem breathing. Can I ignore her comments and let my children ride a three wheeler anyway, without getting in any leagal problems?

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September 4 9:10 AM (7 hours and 47 minutes and 5 seconds later)
         
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Dear Honda,

It is ok to ride the three wheeler on your property despite the raising of the dust, and despite your neighbors protests.

But then, perhaps your neighbor has asthma or an allergy to dust, and the dust is making it hard for him or her to live. What is wrong with being a courtious and good neighbor. If the property is that large, perhaps there is another place you can ride.

Your neighbor can go to court and ask for an injunciton against this behavior until you can go to court to resolve it. It is possible that the courts could order you to not ride the three wheeler on the property, as it is a health hazhard to others.

Judges and courts, every day, are making decisions to order accomodation for neighbors concerning:

  1. Loud noises
  2. Barking Dogs
  3. Traffic problems
  4. etc.

I am not sure you are famliar with it, but there is a guy in California that had a super christmas display. It was so radical that it created traffic problems and kept neighbors awake. The judge ruled that he had only certain hours in which he could display, and if the traffic reached a certain point or there was a traffic accident, he had to discontinue the display. Guess what, he discontinued the display because of a traffic accident.

The issue here is, that even though you have the legal right now, why would you put yourself in a position where your otherwise good neighbor will be foreced to seek legal relief, and your actions will be judged by someone you don't know or a jury of your peers.

The other thing to think about is that judges often think about the moral implications in some of these issues. For example, what lesson are you teaching your kids? That they can do what ever they want and ignor the pain and suffering of others, as long as they are having fun. Not sure this is the message you are wanting to send to your children. I believe a judge would be thinking the same thing.

How different will it be between you and your neigbor, what lesson will it teach your children if instead:

  1. You went to your neighbor to apologize....:I apologize neighbor, I hadn't realized that you had a health problem with the dust". I really do not mean to cause you discomfort. Can you help me out here. I need a place to allow the children to ride.

You an explore with your neighbor locations or even times of the day that would not be a problem. Perhaps there are days in which she may not be home. Being flexable with your schedule will help your neigbor and she will be very appreciative.

Perhaps there is a dirt track nearby that you can use, that is not so close as to cause a nusance with your neigbor.

SUMMARY:

You can legally continue to do what you are doing. However it will not make good neigbors. When your activities are preceived as a nusance or health issue to others, that is when the legal problems will start.




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September 4 12:50 PM (3 hours and 39 minutes and 59 seconds later)
         
Reply to Ed Johnson's Post: I clearly understand and I am more than willing to deal with my neighbor in a friendly manner when they don't attack first and simply ask. But this one is horrible. She's wathching our every move,and then dictates children even adults how to walk, where to sit, where to park our vehicles and etc. in our own yard. She is very controlling neighbor. One move that she does't like, she explodes. I just do not understand how can somebody controll their neighbor like that. She does whatever she wants and does't care if we like it or not. Three wheeler was something that happened only for one time. I just wanted my children have some fun before they start school again and of course that was all ruined. So, she can be a queen of queens and treat us however her heart desires? Can we do something about her behavior. She is not the victim here, we are and yet she acts like she is.
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September 4 1:02 PM (11 minutes and 52 seconds later)
         
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Dear honda,

Well, now the situation is turned around a bit. If your neighbor is recalcitrant and a bully, you an obtain a restraining order for her.

Still, some effort to take the lead in taming the beast so to speak should be made.

When you meat such behavior with defensiveness, you essentially feed it. She is deriving some payoff, and unfortunately, your reactions are part of that payoff.

Do the unexpected. Show her kindness and empathy.

However, also stand your ground, politely and without anger and malice, assert your right. Do accommodate to some extent, the issue of the dust. Maybe you can water down the area to reduce dust....etc.

I just do not like restraining orders and such between neighbors. That is an ugly mess to get into.

Invite her to a barbecue and get to know her. Perhaps showing a bit of kindness and biting back just a little, non-defensively, and not out of anger, will help calm the beast a little.




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